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MissyJ,
I'm sorry to hear that it sounds you have had such an awful experience. I can completely understand your frustration.
Open adoptions however have been a major part of many birthmother or parents choice for adoption because they desire that connection or contact. They want the information to be available, and they want their child to never have questions unanswered. This is my quest towards adoption in protecting my rights as a birthparent to make sure my child and others do have that information and contact that they agreed upon. I agree also that adoption as a whole has to many ins and outs and not enough unity to consider the child. As a birthparent they/we do have a right to decide if we want to be known or not, and it's sad to hear that some wish to hide the issue.
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