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We adopted two boys that were diagnosed as FAS and FAE. Both had LD, and ADHD type behaviors (impulsivity, difficulty in retaining information, etc). But, there was also severe abuse involved with the oldest....so I know this came into play as well.....
Just to throw in.....The oldest had the 'poster look' of FAS and the younger had some facial features, but not as pronounced. They both had further physical problems. The oldest had to have open heart surgery when he was a pre-schooler; had some structural problems in his spine (though not severe). The younger had an eye that turned inward (which seems to be a common thing with FAS/FAE kids too, I'm told). He began wearing glasses at the age of three, and it is a strong prescription. But, it works for him and he does well (and always did) in wearing his glasses.
I've been told, and have read that it is sooo individual. What might affect one baby inutero, might not cause much harm to another. As another poster stated, it IS a gamble, and one should be prepared for 'the worst', I think.
However, keep in mind too though......the early intervention and environment will surely help a lot too. At least you know where you're coming from on one hand, and that would surely be a help to some degree.
Best of luck to you.......
Sincerely,
Linny
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