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I wanted to say that I think that some of the comments about birthparents are way off. Child abusers come from ALL different backgrounds. I find it disturbing that the OP was shocked about the birthparents looking just like him and his wife. Do people really think that only poor drug addicts neglet and abuse their children???? Child abusers come in all shapes and sizes, races, and economic groups.
We have had a VERY bad experience this time round with the "system" Do I blame anyone; NO. It is what it is. My desire to add more children our family and knowing I am reaching out to another family in need is what keeps me going through this. Is it right for everyone; NO. I would suggest to the OP that you and your wife look into private adoption if adoption is the way in which you want to have a family. There is not as much "drama" and you are more in control of what works for you and your spouse.
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