[kakuehl]

I have to admit that I'd like some clarification from adad! I'm assuming he's referrnig to allowing your daughter to have contact with you, but I can also read it that he doesn't want amom to have much contact with you either. (Is he afraid of two mothers against one father? I know, I'm reading between the lines here and being very cynical!)

It seems to me that if you and the aparents build a relationship and are on the same page, his fears would be groundless.

Sometimes I think that adoption is a minefield - it's hard to know where one can safely step!

In the meantime, I hope the pictures have arrived and you can enjoy getting reacquainted with her.