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What do you like best about being closed?
It allowed for a true attachment and complete focus on my kids.
What do you wish you could change?
Medical info and I wish I could truly assure (prove) my dd that her bmom is alive and okay.
Would you still chose closed if you had an option?
Not completely closed in the sense of no contact information at all.
What would you like people to know about closed adoptions?
That just because it's closed doesn't mean it's because a parent is insecure or feel threatened. One doesn't need physical contact to feel these things, if thats an issue. I'd also like people to know that just because it's closed, it doesn't necessarily mean SECRECY. Doesn't mean the kids don't know about their bparents or that we don't honor their bparents.
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7 years into our forever family! 
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