[Bug-n-Bears-Mommy]

We kept both boys first names. Probably because after calling them by those names for a year they had just BECOME their names. We did change their middle names altogether...and of course their last names became ours. Bug had 5 names...what a mess! Bear had 4...not uncommon, but his "alleged" father is a sex offender and we did not want him to be able to find him later. They now have the traditional 3 names keeping only their first. All birth families were very understanding of this.