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We are more open with our oldest son's first mom than the agreement. She didn't originally want any contact at all. She knew we were open to contact, though.
We haven't met my youngest son's first mom (by her choice). We send pics and letters to the agency and they are keeping them in a file for her when she is ready for them. She also knows we are willing to open the adoption up if she desires to one day.
The most important things to remember are to be honest and respectful, just like in all situations.
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