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Kindofblue,
I have to say the comment your birthmom made "I just want to have a conversation with you" is awesome. It does not feel as you were being pushed into anything, or having expecations, that we don't feel comfortable with, being thrown at us.
I think you are very wise to take it slow. The contact does bring up emotion=ms that are a surprise. With me, I was the searcher and still had lots of unexpected feelings..confusing feelings, one of the biggest was my total horror at the thought of hurting my parents. Again the relationship just evolved, had some bumps and things said that I, and she and my parents had to deal with...but I am very glad I got the cahnce to know my birthmom...and eventually came to realize that the 2 realtionships were very seperate.
Good luck
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