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Originally Posted by mom of 2
I can only pray my b son contacts me and establishes boundaries with me ,with dignity and respect as that is the only way I have evr treated him or his adoptive parents.Does every one forget the birth moms role in everything???How did the adoptee get to that family?
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This is an adoptee asking for advice...the continual "but don't you know what I went through" is not productive to us and our process of figuring out what to do. As much as we need to know and as much as we have compassion for our bmoms situation, there are times that the process is about the adoptee trying to get wahts right for her. This is one of them.
Nobody is forgetting bmoms role...we need to fugure out what OUR role is in terms of both bmom and amom.