[mom of 2]

since you are an adoptee with only fierce loyalty to your adoptive parents. How would you handle knowing that you had a birth sister out there that every time there is a hang up on our phone says ,Hi,I am your sister into the empty line. She is convinced her brother will call ,and asks if heis mad at her.I just wonder what makes an adoptee think that a birth mom does not need ,love or miss them probably equal to their adoptive family.I know you are in the middle of your issue ,I just wanted to ask that question.Most adoptees are thrilled to be found,SO maybe you could give me some advice on what to tell my son's sister.We were told he would be prepared for aour contact when he was 21.