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Our first adoption was closed. We learned about the birthparents through a trusted friend/lawyer. she learned about us through the same friend. we did get a medical history and names. we never talked or met. she chose not to see the baby at birth. i wish i could have told her thankyou and that i loved her for making us a family. i sometimes wish i could tell her how good DS is doing. my DS is great and well adjusted and doesn't care that he's adopted. We never hid his adoption story from him. just because an adoption is closed with the birth family, doesn't mean it's closed in our own family. both sides shared their adoption, just not with eachother.
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