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I do not have an infant I have a toddler and let me tell you have I heard about not letting ANYONE else hold my lil girl. Well I just could not do that. If we are in closed private settings I will allow in mom or my mom in law hold and play with Mia, but if and when she says she wants Grandma over me she has no choice but to come sit with me. BUT if we are in large family gatherings or say in Walmart I am the only one that she is allowed to be with as I want her to be with me, and I do not want her to scream and cry if I have to take her away from Grandma in public. That is just the way we do it. She has only been home a short time, since Sept 20th, and as an almost 3 yr oldattachment is one of our main concerns but she knows who mommy is and when she gets hurt or scared or upset she still wants mami.
Just my 2 cents.
Nichole
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