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Dear Kind,
IMO>> which is as a firstmother, I wonder if she feels as I did about my dd. I wonder about my dd. Basic questions would come up to the surface all the time. Unlike your birthmom, I didn't search for my dd though. In 2003, my dd found me. After two months she pulled back from me. That was very difficult for me to handle.
I would have liked to at least stayed in touch with her. Trying to connected with a complete stranger is very tough to do when you have a lot of emotions to deal with.
From my point of the view is be honest with yourself and your birthmom. Go slow too, because you both may have to deal with emotions you didn't even know you had.
Best of luck,
Found
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