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Old 10-01-2006, 10:15 PM
knudsons knudsons is offline
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Help This horrible mother

After just completing the adoption process with a beautiful sibling group of 4 I find myself in no way connected to one daughter. She has many labels; PTSD,RAD,depression et... Point is she is a 5 year old child and I am her mother. However my being her mother means nothing to her.I don't know how to explain the feelings i have for heror if it would even be appropriate to. I can say without a doubt, they aren't warm and fuzzy and i do want to fix that.It would be easiest just to say we are not connecting or attaching to each other anymore then she and the WalMart Greeter.Any ideas on what I could do?
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S/ girl 11 Years My little adult

S/ boy 8 Years My energy Ball
K/ boy 6 Years All Boy
Disrupted after 8 months Due to appealed TPR Sibling set of 3 Inter state Foster Adopt 3/7/07[/size][/color]
In State Foster Adoption Disrupted 10/2003 Sibling Set of 2 Teens Due to appealed TPR

12/07 Decided our hearts needed a sure thing. Submitted study and began International process for our 2 boys ages 1-3 from Ethiopia.
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