I want so much to find my half brother. One year ago I found my half sister after 42 years---thanks to this site. She talks to my half brother (her whole brother)but won't give me any info. on him because he told her not to. He thinks I'm just some stranger. She doesn't want him to get mad at her. Isn't a year long enough to wait? I just want to talk to him once. He's having a hard time believing I'm his half sister because he never knew our mother had another baby before she died. She thinks he just doesn't want to hurt their dad by bringing up painful memories of her leaving them. If I find out his address or phone number myself she wouldn't be involved and that would be fine with her. Only his number is unlisted she told me. I know the general area where he lives. I'm just not sure of the town/city. Should I try to find him on my own? Should I just sit tight and wait and wait and wait some more? My sister gave him my number, but she doubts he'll ever call. It's making me crazy!
I'm so close yet so far. Guess I sound really stupid wanting so much to talk to someone who could care less about me. He's just the last piece to my puzzle. I want him to know that I am who I say and I mean no harm. I'm not even looking for a relationship. Guess I should just walk away and give up.
Any advice?