[Amysue1112]

Hi RB...
As far as waiting times, it seems there is no rhyme or reason. I think is does help some if the agency has good connections in a region, but even then, the way they are handed out often does not make much sense.

My advice to you...try to relax a little. Our adoption took almost 2 yrs....I wanted it to happen..NOW...no YESTERDAY! But as the months went on, I started to accept the fact that I had no control-and in my belief-when the child that was meant for us was ready, God would send her to us.

After being home with Hannah 4 months, I don't remember the life without her-nor to I even barely remember the suffering of it all. It has all washed away with the joy of our sweet daughter.

I don't think any country moves "fast" so I don't think you should move if your heart is in Russia. But just remember that every day can bring a new challenge, especially in Russia-so try to prepare yourself for the worst case scenario but try to enjoy the hope that lies ahead.

One day, when the time is right-you will find your child.

Take care!
Amy