[sugarbabysmommy]

If she generally lives in the same area, have you considered paying for a PO Box for her, so she always has a place to pick up the updates? And, what about a PO Box for you so she can mail you letters? Anything that you send (to any address for her) make sure you make and keep a copy of it at home, just in case it never makes it to her you'll ahve them for later. Copy the letter and copies of pictures. Another positive to doing this is the ability to show your child at a later date all the things you did send, that sending them did matter to you... which could some day matter to your child.

Another poster mentioned online photo albums, this is also an option. Shutterfly (as well as other's I'm sure) have web sites that you can sign up for that you can post pictures to, it's free. You can choose the web address.

I can hear your exhaustion, I hope you are able to find a solution.