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It has been really comforting to read your replies. Thank you! Its sad, but helpful to know that others have been in a similar place in their relationship with bparents.
Just after I was on here last night, I checked my email and low and behold, bmom had written. 1/2 a sentence to ask us for access to some online pics. I emailed back immediately. Wanted to encourage email/mail contact. Of course, I got no reply to that email. But I did get a text message on my cell phone today, repeating the same question she'd emailed. Then, also in the mail today, I received back the letter I'd tried sending to her. Whoever opened it had written across the top of the letter that bmom is "living on the streets" and instructed us that we are never ever to send any mail to her at that address again.
Its just so sad! I cannot take it. I am this close to changing my cell phone number, discontinuing that email address and being completely done with bmom. We moved since baby was born and will not give her our new address or home phone number. So the cell and email are all she has left as far as contacting us. I know I shouldn't cut her off like that and I'm not sure I could actually go through with it. But the temptation is there. Because today is a perfect example. Every which way I try to reach out to her does not work and it just leaves me so frustrated. Geez, now I know I am rambling. Very sorry!
I'll stop now. But really, thanks again for all the support. It is incredibly meaningful to me.
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