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Nikki,
Your situation is exactly what we went through this summer. We were matched in mid-May with a due date in late August. We talked at least once a week and she invited me to the sonogram in June. Mid-July she stopped answering or returning my calls and stopped contact with the agency. My agency sent her letters asking her to tell us what was going on but we heard nothing. We figured she had decided against the adoption but with no definite answer we were left hanging until we finally heard she had decided to parent two days before her delivery date. Needless to say it was a terrible summer! Heartbreaking doesn't even describe it. I wish she would have just let us know her decision so we could move on.
I hope your situation turns out differently then ours, but so many weeks of silence leaves lots of questions and uncertainty. I wish you luck.
Kathy
P.S. We were just matched again last week with a young couple who is due in 4-5 weeks. I was shocked to hear from my agency again so soon. I will say I have better vibes and am more optimistic with this match....cautiously optimistic.
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