[mommamarci]

I also cannot stand it when people say he is lucky. We have had people saying that since we started the process. Now I am getting into a bit of a pickle. I am trying to find a way to include Cameron's first family in our daily lives. Usually this means at night we say God bless (insert every name: grandparents, aunts, cousins, first family.) The I say we are so lucky to have so many people to love and bless. I cannot decide if this is the same as when people say he is so lucky to have us. I try to say we, so he will know Mommy, Daddy, and Cameron are lucky to have so many people in our lives. I am just trying to find a way to reinforce how fortunate he is that he has a first family that loves him and a forever family that loves him. What do you all think? I don't want him to grow up feeling like he should be grateful to us. So glad I have some time while he does not comprehend my actual words to figure this out!!