I agree to be honest with her. Your feelings are valid! I would in no way, shape or form, take my child around him. That would be my requirement. I would not want my child to ever feel comfortable around him and the more the child is exposed to him, the more comfortable the child may feel.
Keep them apart and be honest. You've DONE NOTHING WRONG. Listen to your instinct. Your right in having major concerns about this. It's not about NOT TRUSTING the bmother, it's about protecting your child. That has to come first, before ANY THING ELSE.
Not to open another can of worms, but I would not even send photo's of child to the bmom. Is there another family member you can keep in contact with? I would not want the sex offender to even have a photo. To send even photo's, I think, COULD put your child at risk.
Her bad choices do not have to be yours. Your job is to protect the child. Don't feel bad about how you feel. Be honest.
