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My feelings are,
#1 You can't be a "birthmom" while your still pregnant, that implies that you've already given birth.
You are an expecting mom.
#2 considering an adoption plan, means just that..your thinking about possibly placing your child.
You are still the childs mom, until if/when you make a decision and act on it.
#3 If you chose to place your child, your still his/hers/their mom, just not the legal mom.
When I say legal, I mean the mom that is responsible for the day to day care, and the one that makes the decisions about things.
That would be like a smoker, thinking about quiting. You couldn't call yourself a non-smoker until you actually quit.
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