Springtime, I understand what you are saying completely, but are you saying that there are no unbiased PAPs out there? I have seen many paps here being very supportive to our members who are considering adoption, you seem yo be one of them
That said, I still dont think it hurts to hear each side of the triads experience in adoption, we all have some experience as to what can or cant happen in the adoption journey. Thats what I was referring to when I said that I didnt think it could hurt the expectant mom to speak with some adoptive parents, adoptess and birthmoms, each has their own unique experiences.