[Springtime]

Hi again.


It just breaks my heart to read about first mothers who felt coerced to place their children for adoption. In my own way I was just trying to let this potential first mother know that it's perfectly fine to consider only herself and her baby when making this decision.

To clear something up, I am a PAP, but I am a PAP who is very concerned about the ethics of adoption. So when I said "paps want kids", I think that's a fair generalization (otherwise why would they be adoption) and my point is, I think potential first mothers should really talk to someone who is unbiased (which, I think, doesn't include boyfriends, parents, adoption agencies, or adoptive mothers). There are of course people all over the spectrum, from those who would buy a baby to those who believe adoptions should be abolished.

ETA: And, Peace.