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Thank you Linny and Lucy joy for your words of support. I found out yesterday that the family that the social worker told me about are not thinking of adopting him, they were going to keep him until they can find another family. Wouldn't that make him worse? The agency and social worker were afraid I was going to put him in foster care. Which I wouldn't do. I am so tired of being lied to and mislead. Can I use a different agency to do the disruption? The agency and social worker are all the way in Oregon and we live in N.J.
To RYKYKI I think one of the things some adoptions are disrupted is the families are not educated and prepared for what can happen. I think the agencies should require that the families take classes . Our agency did nothing except call when they needed something. They never even called after we brought are son home. The first time I spoke with them was 3 months after we came home and thats because I called them hysterically crying because I didn't know what to do with my child. Even then they offered nothing. Its like they never dealt with these issues, which is hard to imagine because I'm sure were not the only people who have had problems. I'm so angry with myself for not educating myself before this. I expected some adjustment issues but never this. Any advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated.
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