[kakuehl]

I know that when I chose to place my son for adoption (in the closed adoption days) it was important for me to have at least the information I was given about the family's background. My son was adopted by people with a similar background to my own. This may explain why our reunion has been relatively smooth. Please just remember that if you choose adoption, even if (like me) you're sure it's the right decision, it will still not be easy to deal with emotionally. You will think of him/her probably everyday of your life.