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When we signed I stated the same thing about drugs and alcohol. I stuck to my guns about the alcohol since I have seen first hand what it can do. I did loosen my strings just a tad about drugs only for the fact that if a bmom uses marijuana occassionally statistics show that very rarely is there any complications such as withdrawels or low birthweight. Just putting it out there in case it can open your perameters a bit. As for the $ I would lay out all the pros and cons of using or saving it now. Or what you might do with the extra $ if you wait a little longer. If you look at my signature you can see from start to the birth of our daughter it was only about 7 months. So, for me 6-9 months seems pretty good to me. Sorry to ramble and good luck in your journey.
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