[lucyjoy]

The social worker seems to have found an experienced family. I know when I took my sons from disrupted placements, they did need to stay with me awhile first before we adopted. I don't know what your situation is, but I know for one of my sons, he needed to be where other kids had the same background as him. He's former parents are wonderful people, he just couldn't adjust there with their bio child.

I know this is a very painful time for you. I hope this turns out to be a good solution for all of you.