I'm hoping to hear from someone who was going for foster to adopt and had to end up sending the kids to a new foster home. Then whether you were able to pull it together and try again.
We are going inactive for a while while I try to pull myself together, but am I naive to think that next time it can be different, can I be hopeful to find success after failure?
Brief history: They were here for 4/5 months and we were going forward with adoption, both rad one with major anger and rage issues, she was listed as moderate but is severe. Her brother also rad ended up having major sexual acting out issues. Was basic level but should have been mod/severe. All parties agreed that they needed to be moved to a home without other children right away. Where they could also receive focused attention for these issues.
My heart is broken.
Trying to figure out what I'm supposed to be doing.
