[Scarlet Moon 13]

Originally Posted by banjo

thanks, I just can't see it changing in 10 years. I know bmothers in very similar situations with adult adoptees. I can't hold out hope for another 10 to 20 years. I need to let it go because it is effecting my life. I haven't done it b4 now - although I have thought about it a lot - because I don't want her to think that I can rejecting her again. Perhaps I will just send her a letter telling her that the random texts are doing my head in and that when she is older and maybe wants/is prepared to commit to a friendship with regular contact then she should drop me a letter. sigh

I didn't know my son was even alive for 33 years..

You don't know how lucky you are.