[japit823]

Sorry I have been having a major problem getting to this board. I start at adoption.com and when I hit forums it says page not available done. Well anyhow court was on 9/8 and TPR trial was set for the end of Nov into begining of Dec. At the hearing, DYFS wanted to decrease visits and BP wanted to increase to overnight. The visits had been once a week (and another visit during the week only if we agreed upon it) The judge refused to change the current visitation because that wasn't what we were there for and made DYFS file for an imergent hearing (sp?) Well that hearing was on Monday. The councelor who recommended visits cut down was there and ready to testify. They had us in negotiations and then the BP atty & DAG would powwow with judge and go back to the parties. After 5 hours of this, it was figured out and we went in front of judge for a court order. The new visits are once every three weeks and then in the middle of the three weeks (so about 10days after regular visit) there will be a therapudic visit with BP. The judge wanted all visits to be therapudic but they couldn't find a source to do what the judge wanted done, so this is how it was settled. I don't understand the purpose of the therapudic visits any input on that would help. The judge also ordered mediation.