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Originally Posted by screaminrieman
It is a shut adoption.He was in foster care for over 2 years before I got him as a foster child. She lives in the same county as us from the last word I've heard but thats been almost a year ago. I've read up on her on our county auditors webpage. She has a nice history. Not so sure about anything good. Other than the public records, I don't know much about her. I will say that whoever the father is, he must have been one heck of an athlete. That could be it, it may have been her ?
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The fact that you don't know her, but only her record, allows you to see her as a monster... and the speculations only get worse. Fact is, there is a real person underneath that record... someone you don't really know. I'd think she probably had a pretty bad upbringing herself. Not that this is a defense for anything she's done, but I would be hoping that she might have a chance for a better future... that she would find real opportunities to turn her life around. Unhealthy behavioral patterns learned from an early age can be hard to break for some people, without help. You can't know if there is anything good or any potential good within her (which I believe all people have), if you don't know her (as a person).