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I have been in reunion for 9 mo. In the beginning, I felt that I was putting forth most of the effort. I am 33 years old. I think every relationship is going to be different. I want honesty, but I don't think my bmom is ready to talk about everything. I know my basic story, but she is not open to answering a lot of questions. It is too painful. We are talking about day to day things, and for now, that is great. We live 500 miles apart so that makes getting to know each other hard too. We are limited to phone calls and e-mail. I talk to her on the phone about once a month. We have been e-mailing every few days, a few sentences here and there. In the beginning I didn't hear from her much and it just killed me. We went through a few months where she didn't contact me. I think I was over loading her with questions.
I hope this helps....
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