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I have contact with my bmom (a few emails a year)...if she wanted more, I'd likely shut down the relationship. I had an open adoption, so I might not be the kind of adoptee you're looking for...but I just don't have a desire to have a mom and daughter relationship with her...but in this regard, I'm lucky, she makes NO effort and rarely even responds to emails (2 this year) I send...which is ok with me.
I did, however, enjoy the contact I had with her and her family growing up...there was no 'unknown' for me.
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Brandy
Adopted Adult, Mom & Wife
Mothering From The Sidelines of Open Adoption
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