[mom2GRLC]

Well, i was able to get that question answered a little more.

Basically with my sons case they knew it would be a permanent thing and they weren't willing to do that...grandma would have but grandpa was very against it. They felt he deserved to be in a home with a younger couple who ould adore him and care for him, verses with them where his birthmom would come in and out of his life and cause problems, they say she is very difficult to maintain a relationship with.

With the other boy she is caring for it is temporary. Her younger son had to go to jail for a couple years, he will be getting out in a year and when he gets back on his feet he will regain his custody. Grandma says it will be hard for her when he goes because she is raising him like her own son but grandpa is very clear on the fact that it is his sons boy and he is getting him back just as soon as he gets out.

So it does clarify things a bit. One was going to have to be a permanent thing the other was just temporary.