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If this were my situation.... I would either take her along to get Zach or send DH to get Zach. I agree with your concern that she may be set back attachment wise by you leaving her for several days. I'm not of the mind that you will do irreconcilable (however it's spelled) harm to your newly adopted child if someone else lays a hand on him, but I do think that leaving for DAYS isn't exactly going to help the process.
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Referral of 4 day old BG 4/07/05
Home forever 11/09/05 
lovin' family life since
June 2006: found a waiting child and starting the process to bring him home
born 4/27/03
8/22/07--home
April 2009: decided to pursue an Ethiopian adoption for "baby sister"
9/9- CIS approval
9/17- officially on the wait list~hopefully 8-10 months
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