09-18-2006, 03:05 PM
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I Love My Kiddos...
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Personally, I would not leave her with your mom...while it may not cause a problem...there is no way to know in advance. Find a solution where if at all possible you stay home with her or worst case scenario, take her with you. It can cause an issue in some babies...why risk it?
I would not want anyone to have to live with a lifetime of second guessing themselves as I do...every. single. day. for a simple mistake in my judgement...my son and his attachment issues and now possibly PTSD... Long story very short...I should have fought harder to make an ambulance ride with him 10 days after he came home. I never left his side before or after that in either hospital but in that 30 minutes, I believe whole-heartedly, something happened to his trust in me...
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Proud Mommy to two...who have taught me I can not change their pasts but I can change me and the way I parent them~
*Yaya~My Siberian Sweetie ~born in 2001~Home 2002~Now 8 and a 'Tween', and in 3rd grade. She's all girl!!! 
*Bubbs~My Samaran Sunshine~born in 2003~Home 2004~now 6, in Kindy and such a sweet, silly & special boy! 
'My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to, your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small, You never need to carry more than you can hold, and while you're out there getting where you're getting to, I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too, Yeah, this, is my wish.'
~"My Wish" by Rascal Flatts
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