[spokanemom]

Well unless Zach get out of PGN this week or next week it looks like we will have to do 2 pick ups trips.( Please keep Zach in your prayers so that this won't be an issue) The two trips could possibly be 2 - 4 weeks apart. For our 2nd trip we would fly down for the minimum amount of days possible but that still would be 4 or 5 days. Olivia will stay with my mom while either I go or my husband and I go together. How will this affect her bonding. Me fear is that she will just be getting used to me and then me leaving could set us back or have her distrust me. What do you guys think. Am I worrying about nothing or could I do something to make me being gone easier for her? Should my mom help when she first comes home in participating in her care so that she won't feel adbandoned when I do go? What is your advise?