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My someone, I do still see my bchild but not as often as of course it is more difficult for the aparents to arrange visits - someone has to care for their other children plus as children get older their weekends get busy etc. I use to think of the afamily's other children as being like nieces and nephews and that's why it hurt when contact with them ended. But now I have accepted the situation and I don't want to go back to how it was. It also made me feel even more like how being a birthmother was bad. Just me being in their lives hurt their other children so it was easier to make me go away. Imagine any other situation in your life where you would just have to suck that up? Yet another example of how dsyfunctional adoption is for everyone.
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