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Brandy,
Please do not tell your son. I was a child concieved by rape. I was a closed adoption but with help of search angel was reunited. I found bmom and was told at that time that she was brutally raped. I did not deal well with this bit of information at all. This is becasue the entire time growing up my aparents told me her age and his age and told me that they were probably in love and they made a mistake. Boy were they ever wrong. I have big issues knowing that I was concieved by rape. even worse I look exactly like him. Bmom everytime she sees me sees him. She has a hard time with it as well. If you so decide to tell your son please so not make it any time soon. Let him have his child hood. it is VERY difficult once the truth is made known.