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Originally Posted by screaminrieman
And I thank God every night for the opportunity to father Noah. He is a blessing to all he's been around and as mad as I am at his birthmom for the things that she allowed to happen to him, I praise her for not aborting him.
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Be careful, your disdainful attitude towards Noah's BirthMom will eventually seep through to him. He may either internalize some of it to himself (he is a part of her and always will be) or keep it more external and develop a disdainful attitude towards her himself. Also, she did NOT abort him, so THAT is a moot point. Forget it. Find something else positive to "praise" Noah's BirthMom about. Do you know that God asks us to search for that which is precious in others and blesses us for it? There's got to be something good in her, don't you think?
Is your adoption open or shut?
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Last edited by merrill1277 : 09-17-2006 at 05:43 PM.
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