Adoption Parenting: Creating a Toolbox, Building Connections ... By Jean MacLeod, Sheena Macrae
I can't recommend this book enough! It deals with many and varied challenges faced by adoptive children (and adoptive parents!). I'm not finished reading it yet but I know I'll use this as my guide when we have our child home and I'll read it several times before then.
You can purchase it through Amazon (or wherever you can find it). It's written by Australians.
Better too much info than not enough, I say!
