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Old 09-15-2006, 11:00 PM
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First off, I'm so sorry for what you endured. I am so proud of you for your bravery; that you dad is behind bars for what he did!

For some aparents, it's difficult to know how to respond to a letter by a bparent. Definately keep contact through the aparents right now. It might be that their dd is growing up and moving on and their son is almost there. The thought of him leaving the home and potentially "loosing" him might be scary if they're insecure people. So direct the letter to them and keep it professional rather than emotional. I'm sorry you are in this position. I hope they will have a change of heart and lighten up.
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