[Bug-n-Bears-Mommy]

I would definately contact the a-parents first. The perception of adoption has changed so much over the last few years that maybe they would be more responsive now than they were then. It is hard telling, but I would definately respect their role as parents by contacting them first. Certified mail is a good idea too. Maybe they will feel obligated in some way to at the very least reapond to you.

I am so very sorry for what you have endured in your life...I hope things work out for you.