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I agree, by calling him Your little boy hon YOu have claimed him in Your heart. I also agree he may not always be easy to raise but no child is always easy and yes some can be down right difficult. But he is a toddler and this is a fun and exciting but for parents and You are his parent. It can also be a challenging time for all of us. Just remember when he is being naughty count to ten or more if need be. He is Your little guy and congratulations on being the Mom to a son yes girls are nice we have one daughter and we also have 3 son's. Very different in how they boys versus girls relate to their world how they respond emotionally and even physically to things. Hes a boy and boy's are Wonderful also things Look wonderful for an adoption here for YOu. Let yourselfe be free to Love him unconditionally. Love him when hes naughty and when he is Nice. I would say NO do not adopt this child if You had no feelings for him or your only feeling was contempt for the child or anger all the time at the child. BUt if in your heart of hearts You Love this child then do him and yourself a favor. Legally become his mommy and I think just making him legally yours may help alot I know it did when we adopted our two foster adopt kids. It was not easy they had alot of issues but when that judge signed the paper making them Legally for all to see Our children it was nice feeling.
Best wishes
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