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Hello Everyone. Sorry, I've been away for a long time - nearly a year now I guess. We went home to NZ to give IVF one last shot and now we're back in the UK and back on the road to adoption. Coffee_please - sorry you're being messed around with appointments, they have no idea. Keep strong and on the case, surely they can manage an initial appointment sooner than that - grrrrr! And listen - if you don't feel up to the hospital visit when sister-in-laws baby is born - just don't do it. I know from experience that putting myself through stuff like that just to make other people happy is so not worth it. If you feel strong and want to go along because you're doing it for yourself then thats different. That probably sounds selfish but I think it's too easy to forget to look after yourself and do what is best for you - not everyone else. I'm being brave now and going to visit a friend who was doing IVF at the sametime as me - she had a boy last week. Maybe it's easier 'cause I know she understands how it is - it would be more difficult with someone who gets pregnant at the drop of a hat.
Anyway, we're still on this great big long journey to be a family - it seems to be taking a long time but I'm sure it will be worth the wait.
Happy thoughts and wishes to you all.
CFC
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