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I do not believe you are overreacting; however, you must be firm with these individuals and ask them not to feed or touch your daughter.
Just this morning, I had to remind the babysitter that she is not the mother of my children and that she needs to treat them as a babysitter. She constantly hugs and kisses my almost three year old and my three year old no longer wants me to hold her. When I pick her up from the sitter, she runs to the babysitter and does not want to leave, so I explained to the babysitter that this will no longer be tolerated. She agreed to stop babying her and hugging and kissing her.
Additionally, I take two bags of food with lunch, snacks and drinks for all three and the babysitter has the nerve to tell me that the two older ones the five and three year old do not want what I take them. First of all, I wake up early in the morning to make sure they have good nutritious meals and she has the nerve to tell me that she feeds them what she makes. I told her to stop this as well and feed them what I take, which she starting doing.
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Gigi
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