[shy_bear]

We have two of the most wonderful children in the world. We were blessed to adopt them quickly with no complications. We had embarked earlier this year to adopt through foster care; long story short it was a living nightmare that resulted in us going to the state to file a complaint. Since then I have been slowly researching private agency's. Here lately my heart is just not into it. I am so busy with the girls, we do cheer, swim, and girl scouts, so I am out of the house every night of the week plus I just got a part time job. I like my life right now, but on the other hand I don't want to wake up 5 or 10 years from now and wish we had moved forward with having more kids. My oldest is 8 and I also don't know how I feel about having a newborn when she is 11 or 12 years old. So for those of you who have had more than 2 what was your mind set? Did anyone wait YEARS in between kids? Hubby and I are young; we were placed with M when we were 22 so I know our age won't be an issue in the future. I also hear that since we already have two our wait time could be a lot longer.