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My husband and I are hoping to begin the adoption process in the very near future. We are interested in hearing about people's experiences with both domestic and international adoptions. What are the "pros" and "cons" of each?

We have heard that international adoptions are a better option for "older" parents like ourselves (I am 41 and my husband is 35) and those who prefer not to have an open adoption. Is that really the case? We have also heard that domestic adoptions are more likely to fall through. Has that been your experience?

Some more background -- We would like to adopt an infant (or a child that is less than a year old). Ethnic background or birth country is not an issue.

Any advice or information would be most appreciated!

Thanks!