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I have a bio child who is doing this as well. I have taken him in and they say it could have to do with him having a rough start in life but they say he could be just acting out his age. Some kids use this as their way to get control when their control was taken away. I let him throw his fit as long as he's nut hurting himself and anyone else. Yes even at the store even if i am super embaressed. His fit's last less if i'm not responding to it. Now when he get's really violiant i pick him up and lay him on the couch or his bed (somewhere he can calm down, without getting hurt.) I tell him that I know he is angry and that's ok but this behavior is not OK. This is how I have been told to work it and for the most part it's been working for us.
He spent 6 months in and out of the hospital with lot's of needles and test and hardly any cuddle time do to tubes stuff. While at home he was held 24/7 he could ever be alone (he's was a very needy baby) you put him down for a few min's when he was awake he would scream for 10 sec's (no kidding) he would stop breathing and shut down.
I would take her in but if she is 2 this is the age of learning about her feelings and teaching her how to deal with them.
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